One of the many reasons I travel is to learn, explore, seek, find and discover. And usually when I’m going about my business getting to know people from far off lands, my mind becomes that much broader. My perceptions of what I imagined people to eat, dance to and enjoy begin to change as I’m enlightened about their language, lifestyle and social interaction. But the most surprising discovery of all whilst travelling is how little people know about Africa and my home country South Africa.
My husband with the South African flag.
I will be honest and say that I haven’t travelled to any other African country other than my own, something I deeply desire to rectify soon. But upon teaching English in Seoul, South Korea, I was disturbed to find out what children and people associated with Africa.
Performers making the shape of Africa at the Soccer World Cup 2010 held in South Africa.
Whenever I uttered the word, “Africa”, the students would reply “Tikka Tikka” resembling the sound of a drum or tribal instruments. The young children could not understand when I described my city of Cape Town has having everything other than bushveld, grass and animals in it. Whilst I am quite musical, I’m not particularly good at beating a drum. A 7 year-old Russian student declared me to be a ‘black magic’ person. Whilst I have dark skin, culturally there is no magic I subcribe to or any sangomas who shakes bones to solve my problems. Whilst we all belong to some tribe or other, I have never (sadly) resided in a hut, killed an animal for dinner or worn a loin cloth or animal skin. Whilst this might of been or still is a reality for many Africans, this is but one of multiple cultures that make up our continent.
A man performing in traditional Zulu attire at Moyo Restaurant just outside of Cape Town.
There’s a roving joke that many people believe we still have wild lions, giraffe, zebra and elephants wondering around in our back gardens. Crazily enough, I have been asked this on numerous occasions. As cool as this would be ironically, most South Africans have never and won’t see the Big Five in their natural habitats. Safari park prices are geared towards tourists and the average local cannot come close to affording the entrance fee to the park let alone a game drive.
It makes me wonder what children are taught about Africa in schools today. I’m guessing black, wild, savage, tribesman and hunters about covers it. Now that we live in Thailand, when my husband mentions that he’s from Africa, locals cannot reconcile his white skin with Africa. Somewhere in school textbooks, it was omitted that South Africa has white, Indian, Black and coloured people residing within its borders. Evidently our 11 official languages have also perplexed some folk as the Ministry of Thai Education no longer classify South Africa as an English speaking nation and yet here I am, a native English speaker.
To get a glimpse of our diversity, you needn’t look further than my bridal party of friends and family.
Whilst I am extremely proud to hail from a continent boasting serene bushveld landscapes, majestic wild animals and a strong culture of dancing, music and drum beats, we have a lot more than that. South Africa itself is a rapidly developing nation boasting some of the most talented creatives in the sphere of music, DJing, art, dancing, cuisine, design, technology and fashion. We have some of the cleanest water in the world and are one of the few countries where you can drink delicious water from the tap.
In the centre of Cape Town we have European-style plazas with side-walk cafes serving superb espresso and buildings displaying remnants of Victorian and Cape Dutch architecture. We set trends, know good coffee, grow A-grade fruit, and produce the best meat and entrepreneurial minds. In 45 minutes you can drive from Cape Malay quarters on the slopes of Signal Hill with its curries, mosques and colourful houses to the townships where the music plays in spaza shops and young black boys kick a soccer balls beside houses made of tin.
Young boys playing soccer in Beaufort West, South Africa.
A BBoy crew break dancing at a fashion show in Cape Town’s city centre.
I’ve been asked by dozens of travellers whether I know certain individuals from Kenya or Egypt. This is led me to believe certain things about South Africa a) They do not know that it is a country and not a continent b) it’s location (which is funny since ‘South’ should give it away). And seen as I don’t even know all my neighbours in my area, I wouldn’t have met you friend many borders away.
One thing that always brings a smile to my face is when I say “South Africa” and the response is “Mandela”. What a wonderful association to have with our nation. I always beem with pride at having one of the world’s greatest icons call this country home. Whilst we are still a continent plagued by poverty, corruption and civil war, we are a land whose greatest treasure is the warmth, perseverance and spirit of community entrenched in our people.
Some of my South African friends.
A group of school boys feeding the birds at Kalk Bay Harbour.
If we realise that most Chinese people no longer walk around in robes, black headwear and slippers whilst pushing carts and English citizens don’t move about in carriages dressed in big hats, corseted gowns and tailcoats, then surely we can assume that all inhabitants from the massive continent of Africa have evolved with the times too?
The beautiful and diverse city of Cape Town.
Were you ever surprised by how different a country/continent and its people really are?
View of the ocean and colourful houses in an informal settlement along South Africa’s rural Wild Coast.
South Africa’s French Quarter called Franschhoek.
One of the many spectacular beaches in Cape Town, Muizenberg.
Shopping at Green point’s African market in the centre of Cape Town.
All photographs are my own and subject to copyright.
Great post Lauren, but we people simplify that that we don’t know. And we know very little.
I’m from a neighborhood from Barcelona, Barcelona Province, Catalonia region, Country of Spain, Southern Europe, Europe. It’s practically impossible to know all the layers of every location without a log stay at a place, and above all, caring enough about where you are to learn it.
We call 1bn people “Africans” as we call 1.5bn “Indians”, 1,5bn “Chinese”, and the almost 300m who self-denominate themselves “Americans” forgetting that there are, almost 800m other “Americans” sharing the continent. And that’s just a start.
Mexican sombreros on sale in Barcelona at shops managed by Pakistani immigrants locals call “Indians”? Angolan ceremonial masks sold by a Spanish-speaking national from Cameron in South Africa’s Long Street? (both true stories).
It is by spending quality time that we learn about the Shangaan people, the Koi-san, the Basques… did you know in the US there are 550 federally recognized Indian tribes?
Isn’t knowing, identifying and being interested in local differences what separates the traveler from the tourist?
Note: Speaking to other travelers who’ve been to Cape Town we all agree that the Cape region is not Africa, but a misplaced Mediterranean o Californian province.
Thanks Jordi! Great comment. Too true, we know so little even after spending a short time in some countries. Hehe, I’d like to think of Cape Town has a mengsel ( mixin Afrikaans ) of African funk with Mediterranean flair and European sophistication. A city like no other 😉
Nice post! Hope I can see the day that people realise that Africa is not a country and Africans is such a general description as Europeans…
Thanks for reading! I look forward to that day too and hope that I can also become more open-minded regarding people from other nations.
Excellent post! As a black American, I know all too well what it’s like to be stereotyped. That’s why I appreciate travel so much – because it forces us to break down our misconceptions about other people and cultures.
Thanks for reading Dana! Too true, travel is the best teacher.
Hi Dana,
As a white african, i am always amused by black americans calling themselves african americans when most of them have been off the continent for hundreds of years. My brother has moved over there and is an American citizen now, he really is an African American! 🙂
Hey Lauren!
Crazy how i stumbled upon your blog as i wait for my work to export and only realise at the end while reading through the comments that you are the same Lauren i used to see at the Primedia offices!!
Your post is insightful and a reflection of people’s myopic view of their own worlds, their own environment. As a former traveller (and I hopefully will be one again!) I can relate to being enamoured with other cultures and the want to explore and learn about those in the world that i do not know. Those who can will travel and learn and those who cannot will continue to struggle through their day to days to get to the next day.
I hope you and your husband enjoy your travelling experiences and continue to regal your readers with your stories! keep flying the flag for SA!!
Hey Steven, How awesome to find you here! Thanks so much for reading, love your comment. It re-inspires me to really try learn about other cultures instead of finding something I really don’t like or understand and going no further ( had this experience in Taiwan where the staring just left me feeling isolated and unwelcome). We are in CT for a month or so, so you never know-may see you around! You’ll travel again someday and when you do…the world will only be enriched by the photography that comes from that adventure 🙂
That’s hilarious about people asking you if you know someone borders away. People in Ethiopia ask me all the time if I know their relatives in Minnesota even though I live in Texas. It is just one of many questions I get from Ethiopians about my home country that falls under stereotypes or generalizations about America and Americans. But on the other hand I have noticed the circumstances vice versa during a recent visit to the States. “How are you handling the heat?” I reply, “Well, it’s actaully pretty cold where I am.” “But I thoughts Africa was hot.” I ay, “Africa is a continent with many different geographical features and climate zones.”
People often seem to only know what National Geographic tells them.
Yip and what’s funniest to me is that even people who’ve grown up in a multi-cultural society can’t fathom how other countries can be as diverse?! Malaysia has indians, Chinese and Malays and yet many people I’ve met cannot fathom that we have so many different cultures in the country of South Africa. hehe
Personally, I too have had a couple of interesting experiences in respect to being Black in Korea. I remember when I first started teaching, I asked my students to guess where I was from, and the majority of them guessed that I hailed from Africa. When I told them that I was from the United States, many of them were either shocked or in disbelief, and then it made sense to them as they screamed ‘Obama’… (oy vey…)
I specifically remember one incident in a taxi ride. I was in the taxi with my friend, who happens to be a White South African. The taxi driver inquired as to where we were from, me stating the United States, and her stating South Africa. He immediately said ‘no, no, you (me) are from Africa and you (her) are from America)… (oy vey…)
There are a lot of things that people around the world need to learn about people around the world.
Yes indeed Chanel, but I live in hope that every person who asks these same questions and stares at my husband and I in disbelief ( as we’re from the same city and grew up 15 minutes apart) will get the chance to be educated on diversity by us. Hehe, educating one by one.